Polyamorous Relationships are Valid

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You’re not better than polyamorous folks

Peak Web February 9, 2026

By: C Icart, Co-Editor-in-Chief I’m just going to cut to the chase: the hate around polyamory is weird. It comes from all sides of the political spectrum and from individuals of all sexual orientations, but today I’m talking to the monogamous queers making “why do poly people look like that?” comments or jokes. While sometimes it can just be throwing shade in good fun, by ostracizing people who are alternative, visibly queer, gender nonconforming, and considered not “conventionally attractive,” you sound exactly like queerphobic bigots. Repeating talking points that misogynists commonly use online normalizes judgment.  “Polyamory, or consensual nonmonogamy, is…

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