perfectionism

A small figure looks despairing at a yellow giant figure with a crown. The figure is a metaphor for the unachievable standard the figure projects onto himself.
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A letter of challenge from a recovering perfectionist

Noeka Nimmervoll November 11, 2025

Are you a perfectionist? Start with this short checklist: Do you set big goals for yourself, yet feel no sense of accomplishment if you reach them?  Are you highly critical of yourself and/or others? Do you struggle to experiment or adapt to changing situations? Do you find it hard to accept that you will make mistakes?  If you answered yes to all or most of the situations above, welcome. This is a safe space. As a fellow perfectionist, I understand you, and I empathize with your state of mind. Constantly comparing yourself to a perfect version of yourself takes its…

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A piece of white paper with a heading saying “To Do List” and one item stating “Mainly procrastinate”
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Done is better than perfect

Hayleigh Giesbrecht September 5, 2023

My 12th grade geography teacher once told me I’d be a great college student because I was so good at procrastinating. I laughed at what I assumed was a tongue-in-cheek remark because a) I hadn’t done the assignment that day,…

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My perfectionism nearly ruined me

Maya Beninteso February 18, 2022

You knew my type in high school. I always sat in the front row and was a part of too many student councils and clubs to remember. I was a multi-sport athlete. I was the valedictorian of my graduating class.…

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