grief

A string of colourful Papel Picado (paper banners) cut into skeletons with ornate flower crowns. The photo is taken outside on a bright day, with shadows of the papel picado and tree branches casted on a backdrop of an amber yellow wall, the same autumnal colour as the marigolds lining the grass below.
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Lessons on grief from Día de los Muertos

Peak Web October 26, 2026

Grief is a difficult emotion to process. It’s not something you can fully move on from; it often lingers within and shows up in waves. There is no expiration date to grief.  I lost my father to cancer 12 years ago. I had celebrated my 15th birthday less than a month before his passing. I still remember the awareness that had cemented itself within every corner of my body as I walked to the bakery to purchase my own birthday cake; my mom was busy taking care of my dad. But it would be more accurate to say that she…

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A photo of several lit candles
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Grieving the Lapu-Lapu festival tragedy

Peak Web June 16, 2025

Lapu-Lapu Day — a day to celebrate resistance — traces its roots to when Datu Lapu-Lapu defeated Spanish colonial rule during the 1521 Battle of Mactan in the Philippines. Since 2023, Vancouver has held a festival honouring Lapu-Lapu, which serves…

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Running out of time

Peak Web June 7, 2023

It’s been over a year since I left my home country, and since then I’ve only seen my parents in-person two times. This past week I had the fortune of having my parents visit me here, in this new city…

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A girl with short black hair stands with her back turned. She is wearing a winter jacket and holding Mukmuk, a Vancouver 2010 winter plush mascot who resembles a beaver, in one hand and a Filipino flag in the other hand. In the distance is a scene of a busy street in Manila with people socializing and laughing.
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When homesickness feels a lot like grief

Peak Web June 6, 2022

I learned what it meant to be homesick when I was nine.  My family and I packed up everything we owned, said heavy goodbyes to family and friends, and boarded a plane from Manila. Our destination was Vancouver where we…

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How to deal with loss

EIC June 1, 2015

We’ve all lost someone close to us. The reality of loss is that it is an uncontrollable force. Death is a hurricane that tears people and their surroundings apart, disorienting the course of their life. As devastating as it is,…

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